The Orgasm Gap: Another Reason to Dump Him

Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get nearly enough attention: the orgasm gap. If you’re scratching your head and wondering what that is, let me break it down for you. The orgasm gap refers to the disparity in sexual satisfaction between men and women in heterosexual relationships. Research shows that while most men are consistently reaching the big "O," many women are left unsatisfied. This isn’t just about sex; it’s about equality, respect, and understanding in relationships. From a feminist perspective, it’s a glaring example of how women’s needs and desires are often dismissed or ignored.

So, if you’ve ever rolled over in frustration after yet another one-sided bedroom experience, maybe it’s time to dump him and rethink your standards. Here’s why this problem exists, why it matters, and how it ties into larger issues like invisible women and societal inequality.

DATING WITH AN INVISIBLE PHYSICAL DISABILITY IS HARD BECAUSE TO ME, MY DISABILITY INVISIBLE AT ALL. IT'S HARD TO TELL IF THE PERSON ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE TABLE REALLY WANTS TO KNOW, OR IF I'M JUST TRAUMA DUMPING BECAUSE I HAVE TO EXPLAIN MY IDENTITY.

By Heather Kelly

IN INDIA, WOMEN WERE ESSENTIALLY SEEN AS ONLY WIVES AND MOTHERS, CRUCIAL TO THE STABILITY OF THE FAMILY. FROM THE TIME THEY WERE LITTLE GIRLS TO WHEN THEY HIT PUBERTY AND UNTIL THE TIME THEY GOT MARRIED, THE SEXUALITY OF WOMEN WAS THE MAIN CONCERN OF HINDU SOCIETY IN INDIA. AND THEIR SEXUALITY WAS CONTROLLED DIFFERENTLY THROUGH DIFFERENT PERIODS OF INDIAN HISTORY.

By Kritika  Agrawal

AS DESCRIBED BY HER OWN WEBSITE, DR. JILL McDEVITT IS “A SEXOLOGIST, SEXUALITY EDUCATOR, SEXUAL WELLNESS COACH, AND FEEL-GOOD ACTIVIST”. FEMINIST TRASH RECENTLY GOT AN OPPORTUNITY TO SPEAK WITH THIS MAGNIFICENT WOMAN, DISCUSSING SEX TOYS, FAKING ORGASMS AND THE POLICING OF SEXUALITY.

By Amanda Mansoorbakht

ADVICE FOR TRASH: STOP SELF SABOTAGING! HOW TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO DATE PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTUALLY GOOD FOR YOU.

By Katie Young

AT FIRST, WHAT I WANTED WAS TO BE WANTED, DEEPLY, AND UNBEARABLY.

By Ashley Black

BEING SUBMISSIVE DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD FEMINIST AND LIKING SEX DOESN'T MAKE YOU A SKANK.

By April Shepherd

THE WOES AND WONDERS OF WOOING: A QUICK TIP GUIDE TO SAFE DATING.

by Reese Abdallah